A Dialectical Model of the Human Being:
There are some of us out there, who do take the time out, to think about themselves, whom they are, and how they are doing too even really. Some might read Homecoming by John Bradshaw, others might spend time in the Church, and others still, blabbering even, with a friend or two, about whom they are in many ways, and just how well in all, they actually truly are doing really.
One of the main reasons again, many do fail to understand themselves, is due to not having, a proper model in all, of Human Behavioural Dynamics, that they in all again, can truly turn to, in the bid and attempt even, to truly understand and know, whom they truly are {and truly are, as with speaking truly again, of the ‘Present’ in all ways truly}.
There are some for instance, whom on attempting to know and decipher their ways even, turn to the rather simple and commonly known model of the Human Being, based around defining the Human as a Physical Body, the Emotional Body, and truly also, the Human Spirit in all {and as is the case even, with John Bradshaw in Homecoming for instance truly}. There are others, more Psychological in their ways, who truly define the Human again, truly only, from their Emotional Feelings {and the strong attempt in all again, to truly understand why, one does feel they way they do at any one given time, and even truly again, exactly how well, they should be feeling in all too really}.In many ways truly even, talks even of, Synergy in all, and between such folks and everything around them actually, or even, everyday modern Politics {and speak too again, of the problems in all, that do ail Human populations, seen all over the World actually}.
There is however another more interesting Model, of viewing the Human Being {and arising too, from America/Boston}, that could be of great help in helping many out there, truly understand, whom they truly are again, and in these modern Technical times we do live in actually. A model too {Relational Dialectics}, heavily grounded even, in Communications Theory, and one truly suited for most out there {and as with speak even, of Americanization in all}, in helping one truly in all again, know why even, they truly see things as they do really {and in many ways again, for all those who do read/study Literature and as with the attempt even, to become cultured/civilized, one can truly say in all, it would have been American Literature in all again, that would have best in all truly, got one through, these modern Times we do live in, and due mainly, to how America in all, has often conceived the Human Being: Relational Dialectics that is}.
Relational Dialectics:
To speak of Relational Dialectics from the Laymans view, is to speak of it from more or less, Scientific terms even, and rather than the Psychological actually {but with Psychological explanations in all again, added to make all this clearer, for those who do attempt in all, to truly read a book on Relational Dialectics}.
The Relational Dialectics Model, is one that has four levels to it all. Four levels in all again, that speaks of the Human more from the Dynamical perspective, rather than the Emotional actually. These four levels, can be presented as follows:
- Human Behaviourism
- Human Communications
- Human Adaptive Processes
- Human Thought Processes
The above four levels in all, and as with Psychological speak and Relational Dialectics, are often presented as follows: Human Behaviourisms (and Social processes), Human Communications (and Totality), Human Adaptive Processes (and Contradictions), and finally Human Thought Processes (and Praxis) {with the alternate definitions in all, and in brackets too that is, Psychological speak in all again, often used, when talking about, Relational Dialectics}.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relational_dialectics
To speak of Human Behaviourism, is to speak actually, of the Human Being in all, as truly represented in all really {and as an ‘everyday joe’ even}, by the following three: Appetites, Urges and Drives. This is important to know, whom one is in the realm of Human Behaviourism, as it does speak even, of one housing in all, a form of Knowledge truly {Relational Knowledge}, and as with it even, a form of Knowledge again, that one does use, in simply thinking generally, and about the general actually {as with even perhaps, what to have for dinner in all really}. Knowledge, treated rather Politically today, but in the past, highly based around, whom we are, and as with regards, to our Appetites {and speak of American Gastronomy}, Urges {and speak of Intimacy}, and finally Drives {and speak truly, of the Sex Drive actually}. This way of viewing the everyday Human in all, does differ truly, from the European model in all again, and of viewing the everyday Human, from the perspective even, of Impulses {and the Sexual Impulse}, Habits {and speak even, of Sleeping Habits too actually}, and finally Instincts {and speak even, of the Fear Instinct in all really}.
The European model of viewing the ‘everyday joe’, is falsely believed by many, to be whom we are {and as with saying even, that Humans on Television in all, are actually presented, from this model in all truly (and as with this adding further confusion to the average person out there, with regards, to just how they often do feel actually)}. In many ways for instance, many out there and due to coming in touch, with modern American materiality in all {and as with speak even, of modern American storytelling actually (and including the rap video too even)}, actually do have, a Sex Drive to them, and not a Sexual Impulse {and with this in all though, speaking of, the desire to actually be looked upon as being sexy or cool even, and rather than the need truly, to truly have sex in itself actually (and as with the Sex Impulse too that is)}. This again, is truly why many a people out there, are truly convoluted in all, and as with speak again, of Western Media in all truly, presenting Humans from the European model perspective {and as with advice even, on dating perhaps}, while in reality, whats going on out there {and as with an Internet Forum even}, actually truly speaks in many ways of, the American model {and the desire truly, to not only look sexy and cool, and not necessarily even, have sex in all truly}.
In all again, while the Western Media perhaps, might heavily speak on Sleeping Habits for instance truly {and the true amount even of Sleep in all, that the average Human needs to feel alright actually}, one truly again does find that, most out there, actually have Human Urges issues {and as with speak too even, of Intimacy in all actually} {and the very fact that, most of us out there, are actually truly, seeking out someone Intimate in all, we can truly deeply talk to, rather than wanting to Sleep well, feel rested, and be ready in all, to face another modern Western technical day really}.
In many ways, we can atleast say, there appears to be two kinds of Western Media in operation out there {that which is Televised, and that which is ‘Passed around’}, and as with the latter truly in many ways, speaking about, how many a person out there, truly actually does feel {and again, as with speak even, of an Internet Forum in all too really}.
When we talk about Human Communications, we are truly speaking about, how we in all, do privately even, Engage truly, with our Environments, Others, and Ourselves in all actually. In many ways, the attempt even, to truly create Peace, Harmony and Unity, with Ourselves and Others, and as with regards, to how we do actually, engage/communicate even {and as with speak even, of Human Communications that is}, with anything, we might very well come into contact with. In many ways today, for the average person out there, this speaks truly of not developing Human Communications, but actually truly, Rote Memorization of things {and as with our lives too even}, and as with stating again that, many do attempt in all, to Engage their Environments, Others and Themselves, via Memory in all too really, and as versus Human Communications that is {i.e. seeing things in the Present, and as they truly are actually} {once more is to say that, you don’t have to go to bed at the very same hour every night, but doing so, with regards mainly, to truly engaging not only oneself, but ones environments and others in all too really, and as with regards, with being able to forecast such engagements in all (and as with peace, harmony and unity that is), and into the future too actually}.
Human Adaptive Processes do speak in many ways of whom we truly are, and as Logistical beings too actually. What this means in many ways is that, it all basically at very least speaks on, whom we are with basic Pattern Recognition {and IQ tests too even really}, or even, basic Logic in all too really. Once more, and as with this truly being whom we are and at just about every moment of our lives actually, and today too even that is, is to know that the Western/Technical/Modern World of today, truly has us viewing all this, from our Fears in all actually {and not basic Logistics even (and as with attempting that is, to truly see things as they truly are, and not operate in all, from a Fear mechanism based around, the fear of being punished or shamed in all truly)}. Again, its perhaps best to say that Human Adaptive Processes, do talk of knowing about, what is truly best even, for Everyone, ones Environments, and Oneself even, and at just about any minute in ones life even, rather than operating in all again, from a Fear based mechanism, which with time has us truly developing in all, all forms even, of Nervous Conditions actually {and as with stating again, that a Western/Modern life in all, tends to get worse, by every minute lived actually}.
To speak on Human Thought Processes finally, is to speak basically on, whom we are as Intelligent beings, and beings too, not prone to make any form of mistake, error or faux pas even, and as with speak too even again, of truly being acquainted in all, with the Political in ones life actually {i.e. not upsetting things such that, Survival in all again, truly does become in an issue in all too really}.
The above in all again, is whom we truly all are today, and as with stating even, that the four mentioned levels of the Human Being above, are actually today even, strongly regulated actually, by a Parental Mechanism in all truly {and as with even, Human Thought Processes in all actually}, such that, most never truly do feel free in their lives, unless their Parents in all, do actually die off or even truly again, any form of Parental Mechanism in their lives, is truly made separate from them in all truly {and as with this again, speaking of being a Master in all (and of something too even really), rather than having lots of Money to ones name actually (and finding that, modern Success in all, involves having far more Parental figures, invading ones life in all truly)}.
Secular Humanism and the Free Market Economy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLNZjQ28tPE
Lots of talk out there today, and on the Free Market Economy too even really. To many out there too {and as with America even, perceived the heights of living itself actually} {and no talk too even, of the Federal Reserve and the IRS}, the Free Market Economy simply states that all of us {and as with the whole goddamn wide world that is}, can truly get rich, and live millionaire like lifestyles, if we only truly did adhere too, the principles set out {as with they mainly unknown even}, by the Free Market Economy in all actually {and as with the Free Market Economy in all again, truly falsely believing that, every Human Being out there, wants to achieve modern American Success in all truly, but as with truly knowing even, this Success in all again, truly appears only, in the form of the Fad actually (i.e. rather shortlived in all truly, and at the very most even, speaking of a decade in all truly)}.
What in many ways does drive what some out there do term Secular Humanism in all, is believed in many ways too even, to be at the very heart of the Free Market Economy itself actually. In many ways, while Secular Humanism {and as with it modern Economic Philosophical Thought even}, does attempt to do, is truly represent just about everything out there, from the highly Rational actually {but without stating truly even, who is the final Arbitrator with regards to all this Rational thought (and other than perhaps, a ‘well respected’ Economist in all too really)}, and attempts in all again, to truly reject anything out there that might be perceived even, as being Superstitious in all truly {including Religion and Spirituality itself actually}.
To summarize Secular Humanism for most out there today {and as with the Freudian even}, is to state that it is all a belief that, the average Human, is truly driven in all, by their Sexuality and Sexuality too, not highly based around Sight actually {and as with a Pornographic magazine even}, or even Touch too really [and as with visiting/frequenting a Night Club in all for this main reason}, but actually truly in all again, our Sense of Taste {that having Office Sex in all really, is truly deemed much better, than having it at home, and on a Sunday too even really}. In all again is to state that {and speak too even, of rather unhappy Sexual Human Beings today that is}, that most out there are truly out of touch, with their Environments, Others, and their very Ownselfs too even really, and due mainly {and as with what does constitute even Contradictions, Totality, Social processes, or even Praxis too actually}, to truly only being Aware of their Environments, Others and Oneself in all really, highly based around only, the Sense of Taste actually {i.e. most are truly in general unaware of their environs in all such that, they only do become aware of them actually, when something not in their Taste does occur truly} {and as with stating even that Women in general, are more Aware of their environs in all than most Men actually are, due in all really, to having rather differently developed ‘Taste’ in all, than most Men out there actually do (and as with saying even that, many a Woman today does eat a different food/drink in all, from that which many a Man out there, is bound to eat/take in all too really)} {and at the very least again, all this perceived even truly, from salt and sugar quantities consumed by either in all really}.
Before Human Secularism {and the Free Market State too actually}, most tended to relate to their Environments, Others and Oneself even, highly based around the concept of Play actually {and as with this even, what truly does differentiate one State in America from another in all truly}. And Play too, based around one being mainly in touch with our Environments, Others and Oneself even, and in a rather different manner too, from that only of the Sense of Taste actually {and as with many even, walking into a Night Club in all today, and truly judging it, by their Sense of Taste in all, rather than truly in all again, truly Sensing it out with all of ones Senses actually (and realizing truly even, just how ugly many a place out there today deemed rather attractive in all, and such as London too that is, truly is actually)}.
To truly in all again {and as with Play too even really} {and Relational Dialectics too that is (and as with Play again, at its very heart too even really)}, speak of a truly normal Human Being in all {and as with a critique even, of Western/Modern Society in all really}, is to state that, the ability to truly experience/’sense out’ ones Environments, Others and Oneself even, truly speaks of Accessing all three of them, in certain fundamental manners actually: i.e. Read into, Listening, taking Note, truly Feel, Feel out, and finally Disect even {and with all this, not only speaking of our Sight, Hearing, Smell, Touch, Intuition, and even Taste Senses actually (and respectively too even really), but also and as with modern Relational Dialectics Psychological speak even, referring in all too really, to Openness and Closedness, Favouritism and Impartiality, Autonomy and Correctedness, Novelty and Predictability, Equality and Inequality, and finally even Instrumentality and Affection (and all this spoken about, respectively too that is)}.
To finish on all this is to speak on Play again, and state that it truly in all {and as with Economics in America even}, lies at the very heart of Economic Theory in America actually, and as with associating Play in all again, not only with Relational Dialectics {and its speak too even really of Romantic Relationships, Longdistance Relationships, Friendships, and Workplace Relations even}, but in all truly {and as with Play again} that all this does truly lie at, the very heart even, of all forms of Economic Theory to be seen in America actually {and as with Play in America in all again, truly the most diverse even, to be seen in just about anywhere in the World truly}.
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Austin
